We live in an era where mistakes are permanent, where a single misstep can define a person forever. The rise of cancel culture, public shaming, and social media outrage has created an environment where forgiveness is rare, and redemption is nearly impossible. People are denounced for past errors, even if they have changed and grown.
In such a world, those who rise to prominence are often the ones who feel no shame—the ones who refuse to apologize, who double down on their misdeeds, and who embrace controversy without remorse. Meanwhile, those who admit fault, seek forgiveness, and attempt to make amends are cast aside. This phenomenon is not new; it echoes a profound spiritual truth found in the Quran—the contrast between Adam, who felt shame and sought redemption, and Iblis (Satan), who refused to acknowledge his wrongdoing and was cast into eternal ruin.
The Power of Shame and Redemption in the Quran
Shame, when used correctly, is not a weakness. It is a moral compass that leads to self-reflection and growth. The story of Adam is a powerful example of how shame, when followed by sincere repentance, leads to mercy and redemption.
After Adam and his wife were deceived by Iblis into eating from the forbidden tree, they immediately felt regret and turned to God in repentance. God, in His infinite mercy, accepted their plea and forgave them.
[2:37] Then, Adam received from his Lord words, whereby He redeemed him. He is the Redeemer, Most Merciful.
Adam’s ability to recognize his mistake and humble himself before God was the key to his redemption. His shame led him back to God, and through seeking forgiveness, he was restored.
On the other hand, Iblis refused to accept his wrongdoing. When God commanded him to fall prostrate before Adam, he responded with arrogance, believing himself superior because he was created from fire while Adam was made from clay. Instead of admitting fault, Iblis justified his arrogance and refused to humble himself.
[7:12] He said, “What prevented you from prostrating when I ordered you?” He said, “I am better than he; You created me from fire, and created him from mud.”
[7:13] He said, “Therefore, you must go down, for you are not to be arrogant here. Get out; you are debased.”
This stark contrast highlights a deep truth: in an ideal society, those who feel shame for their misdeeds and genuinely seek forgiveness should be given a path to redemption, while those who remain shameless in their defiance are the ones who should be the ones that society should scrutinize.
The Modern Parallel: Shamelessness as a Path to Power
In today’s world, the same dynamic plays out on a societal level. In a culture that no longer values forgiveness, the ones who dominate are often those who refuse to acknowledge their wrongs. We see this in politics, media, and social influence—where many of the most successful figures are often those who have no shame.
Social media has amplified this phenomenon. Those who embrace controversy, act without remorse, and defy social norms are rewarded with attention, power, and influence. Meanwhile, those who show humility, admit past errors, and seek forgiveness are often ridiculed or “canceled.”
This is the natural consequence of a society that has lost the concept of mercy. Without forgiveness, only the shameless dare to lead. But what is the cost? When power belongs to those who refuse to recognize their own faults, we move further away from morality, accountability, and genuine growth.
The Need to Restore the Balance: Forgiveness and Growth
The Quran reminds us that God’s mercy is vast and that forgiveness is a divine attribute. Submission does not promote a culture of perpetual condemnation but rather one of accountability followed by the opportunity for redemption. Consider that when the prophet was fighting against the pagans that if they repented and reformed they were to be considered brethren, showing that their slate was wiped clean.
[9:11] If they repent and observe the Contact Prayers (Salat) and give the obligatory charity (Zakat), then they are your brethren in religion. We thus explain the revelations for people who know.
Similarly, since God, in His infinite wisdom, grants human beings the chance to repent and be forgiven, why do we deny each other the same grace?
[39:53] Proclaim: “O My servants who exceeded the limits, never despair of GOD’s mercy. For GOD forgives all sins. He is the Forgiver, Most Merciful.”
A society that values forgiveness allows people to learn, change, and grow. This does not mean ignoring wrongdoing but rather creating a path for those who seek to make amends. The alternative—a world where shame is punished but shamelessness is rewarded—only leads to moral decay and a leadership of the unrepentant.
Conclusion: Choosing Redemption Over Ruin
The history of Adam and Iblis teaches us a profound truth: shame, when followed by repentance, leads to redemption, but when a society refuses to allow individuals to move from shame to forgiveness, it creates an environment where only the shameless can thrive.
Adam’s shame was not his downfall—it was his salvation. Because he was able to feel remorse, he sought forgiveness and was redeemed. But if shame leads only to permanent condemnation rather than an opportunity for growth, then the only way to succeed is to reject shame altogether. This is the world we see forming today: a society where mistakes, no matter how small, are met with permanent judgment, where repentance is seen as weakness, and where the only people who rise are those who refuse to feel shame in the first place.
This cultural shift is dangerous. When people believe that seeking forgiveness will not restore them but only lead to further punishment, they will either embrace shamelessness or withdraw entirely. Those with a conscience, who feel guilt and wish to atone, will be cast aside, while the most brazen and unrepentant will dominate public life. The result is a leadership and culture shaped by those who do not acknowledge right and wrong—because only they are willing to stand tall in a world that has lost the ability to forgive.
If we do not restore the concept of forgiveness, we risk creating a world where the only ones who thrive are those who have abandoned any sense of humility, morality, or accountability. Just as Iblis chose arrogance over redemption and was condemned forever, a society that refuses to forgive will find itself ruled by the shameless—those who feel no need to ask for forgiveness because they never believed they needed it in the first place.
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